tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post5593664718000311273..comments2023-10-24T04:49:59.602-05:00Comments on susannahbean: Let's get a little real. susannahbeanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12333063232557953321noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-52945869376379620462013-03-20T03:56:37.609-05:002013-03-20T03:56:37.609-05:00Congrats on your new job (recent post)! And thank...Congrats on your new job (recent post)! And thank you for posting this one. It's been about 7 months for me and the points you made really hit home. I have a Bachelors degree, MAE and two teaching credentials and still can't <br />Find something. It's a scary world we live in now. Your post made me feel like I'm not alone, even though I sometimes feel that way. We're all connected somehow. Thank you. :)The Final Wordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07976731859873009678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-88298395810898579632013-03-20T03:52:45.839-05:002013-03-20T03:52:45.839-05:00Congrats on the new job! (Newest post) I just read...Congrats on the new job! (Newest post) I just read this post and it hits home for me... I'm at 6 months... (Have a BS and MAE and 2 teaching credentials... And nothing)... It's a scary world now. Thank you for helping me feel like I'm not alone, even though it sometimes feels that way. We're all connected somehow. :) thanks...The Final Wordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07976731859873009678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-30283962896986977312013-03-20T03:52:21.706-05:002013-03-20T03:52:21.706-05:00Congrats on the new job! (Newest post) I just read...Congrats on the new job! (Newest post) I just read this post and it hits home for me... I'm at 6 months... (Have a BS and MAE and 2 teaching credentials... And nothing)... It's a scary world now. Thank you for helping me feel like I'm not alone, even though it sometimes feels that way. We're all connected somehow. :) thanks...The Final Wordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07976731859873009678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-13706907880939667092013-02-15T18:43:12.499-06:002013-02-15T18:43:12.499-06:00I know this post isn't brand new, so maybe you...I know this post isn't brand new, so maybe your job situation has changed since writing this. If not, hang in there. My husband was unemployed for a few months and I know it really did a number on his self esteem. He ended up taking the first job he found and from there, got several better offers and is at a job he really enjoys now. Stay positive and you will find something eventually!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04313539342132533776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-86066038976798694282012-12-31T09:07:24.170-06:002012-12-31T09:07:24.170-06:00Hi, this is actually the first post I read on your...Hi, this is actually the first post I read on your blog. I somehow found my way here looking for Derek Cardigan glasses? Strange, I know. <br />Anyway, have you tried going through a temp agency? That is how I landed my first office job. Usually they have you take some tests to assess your skills in Word, Excel, etc. That way potential employers can actually see that you have some skills. At the time, my only experience was retail, so I think having those scores and the help/support of the temp agency really helped me get my foot in the door. I landed the first job I interviewed for. <br />Good luck to you! I wish all good things for you in 2013!laceysweethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06673526755318346790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-47578888644440813932012-12-26T11:42:55.876-06:002012-12-26T11:42:55.876-06:00I don't know if it's of any interest, or i...I don't know if it's of any interest, or if you've already considered or applied, but my very favorite job of all the jobs I've had was front desk at a salon. Granted, it's not an office, but you'd be doing similar things as far as administrative/clerical duties go. Plus you definitely get to wear cute clothes and be yourself. Depending on where you go, you won't have to cover up ink/take out plugs/etc. Just some food for thought!marissa https://www.blogger.com/profile/01903380395172641633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-50910926356551247242012-12-25T18:35:02.080-06:002012-12-25T18:35:02.080-06:00I'm sending you some love and hope via the int...I'm sending you some love and hope via the interwebs! I pray that you will no longer be unemployed by 2013.<br /><br />ChandraChandrahttp://www.theleonardos.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-28272495735690651272012-12-25T10:59:48.569-06:002012-12-25T10:59:48.569-06:00This doesnt help much, but I didnt get my first of...This doesnt help much, but I didnt get my first office job until I was 27. It is great, but not everything. Hang in there! You can do it. I know you will get something great. I am struggling with my own issues right now(relationship, not job related) and we will get thru them! <br /><br />Sarah<br /><br />www.etsy.com/shop/owleyevintageAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337177822498386911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-86247139058068857822012-12-21T17:23:07.160-06:002012-12-21T17:23:07.160-06:00I know that the tough stuff can be the hardest to ...I know that the tough stuff can be the hardest to share with people, especially in such a vast public capacity, but I truly thank you for being willing to candidly share this with your readers. I know the feeling of being in that place--it took me until my late 20's to reach a point where I felt like I was working toward my "career" (whatever that even means!) I was always so angry with myself when I couldn't seem to figure it all out. <br /><br />You are an amazing gal and I wish you all the best!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-23093602813997093032012-12-21T00:56:15.075-06:002012-12-21T00:56:15.075-06:00Sometimes you aren't right for the job and som...Sometimes you aren't right for the job and sometimes the job isn't right for you. Try not to take it personally when the offer doesn't come. It just takes time to find the right job for you. One thing is for sure, you won't find the right job if you don't keep looking... so hang in there and it will all work out! Best of luck to you!!! :) Cheers! KatieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-31993207654927724912012-12-20T17:15:59.005-06:002012-12-20T17:15:59.005-06:00Corporate America is a toughy, Susannah bean. I re...Corporate America is a toughy, Susannah bean. I really adore your willingness to prevail though! You are such a great person, and you will be successful no matter what you do! Growing up, I had what I called 'random' experience (retail, restaurant work). Then one day I just said to myself, "I wanna work in an office". So I just applied EVERYWHERE. Places I knew would never even call me back, and you know what? One of those 'nevers' did call me! I've worked in dentist offices, car corporation offices, counseling centers, and now I work in a university admissions office. I have no educational experience in higher education (mostly American history/ high school education). I only got the job because they said they really liked my personality! I remember acting like a total goofball in the interview process from being so nervous! Even if you don't really believe in ~fate, just know that things happen for a reason! Doors close because they can open, so take a peek at what's on the other side!! (omgz so deep, right?)<br /><br />-DanielleDaniellehttp://danielletology.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-48068941558492110732012-12-20T10:08:56.517-06:002012-12-20T10:08:56.517-06:00I've been creeping on your blog for awhile, an...I've been creeping on your blog for awhile, and I feel like I totally understand you. I'm just here to say that, I NEVER had an "adult job" until about 6 months ago, and I'm almost 27! I've worked in restaurants my ENTIRE working career (with a few stints in retail) and it'll happen. I can even share my sob story of getting my adult job, only to have it ripped from my hands, before I started my first day. (And I got the news 2 days before I graduated from college, 10 minutes before a final) So I grappled with the insecurity of being a single mom, fresh outta college with NOTHING. Because I had already quit my other two jobs thinking that I had finally been granted good will with this new job. I get it. It's rough. But I'm glad you're starting to come out on the other side. Life always has a way of working out, even if it's not how we thought. :) Keep your chin up girl!Karanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-89726083037937116722012-12-19T10:49:53.056-06:002012-12-19T10:49:53.056-06:00I really hope you find a job soon! I'm still i...I really hope you find a job soon! I'm still in university but I've been looking for a part-time job and couldn't find anything, and earlier in the summer I couldn't find a job and was freaking out about how to pay for tuition, so even though I was busy with school it still really messed with my feelings of self-worth. It all worked out in the end though, so that`s good. If you`re applying to retail stores and restaurants, there are still some that are better than others though. Like bookstores are much nicer than clothing stores, and Starbucks is way better than McDonald`s etc. Hopefully you can find something that works for you, and I really hope you find an office job that you love!<br /><br />-LindseyEt tu, tutu?https://www.blogger.com/profile/17761808303771476767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-6775118718315797892012-12-19T09:36:30.737-06:002012-12-19T09:36:30.737-06:00I think it's awesome you shared this. It'...I think it's awesome you shared this. It's nice to read something real! I don't want to discourage you by saying that right now it's tough out there, but it is :( You just have to make that resume/cover letter sing. Talk about your Etsy business (deadlines, delivery) and boost the honesty, money management, customer service aspect of working in a restaurant. I don't claim to be an expert, but if you're willing to do admin, you just need a few key words.<br /><br />Anyway, I wish you luck! I think as difficult as unemployment is, an unhealthy work environment where you spend the majority of your time is SO MUCH WORSE. I currently hate my job and have zero respect for my boss and most coworkers. I considering quitting on a daily basis! So I applaud you for taking care of yourself. And hopefully, after the holidays, opportunities will open up for you :)Katie W...https://www.blogger.com/profile/08859262390738564391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-82474372383464909692012-12-19T09:36:10.214-06:002012-12-19T09:36:10.214-06:00I think it's awesome you shared this. It'...I think it's awesome you shared this. It's nice to read something real! I don't want to discourage you by saying that right now it's tough out there, but it is :( You just have to make that resume/cover letter sing. Talk about your Etsy business (deadlines, delivery) and boost the honesty, money management, customer service aspect of working in a restaurant. I don't claim to be an expert, but if you're willing to do admin, you just need a few key words.<br /><br />Anyway, I wish you luck! I think as difficult as unemployment is, an unhealthy work environment where you spend the majority of your time is SO MUCH WORSE. I currently hate my job and have zero respect for my boss and most coworkers. I considering quitting on a daily basis! So I applaud you for taking care of yourself. And hopefully, after the holidays, opportunities will open up for you :)Katie W...https://www.blogger.com/profile/08859262390738564391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-31273322068581010272012-12-19T05:21:08.918-06:002012-12-19T05:21:08.918-06:00two words: transferable skills.
being in the same...two words: transferable skills.<br /><br />being in the same job for 4+ years show loyalty, commitment and job satisfaction. it tells employers that you are worth investing in, because you're a stayer not a player. working in hospitality is one of *the best* platforms to start from; customer service, organisational skills, inventory, taking and placing orders, internal and external communication, team work and working under pressure - each of these skills look amazing on a CV and any recruiter would be dumb to look past them.<br /><br />being unemployed sucks. we've all been there. there is a light at the end of the tunnel though. you made this decision, for you. the perfect job is just around the corner.. you just haven't made the turn yet.<br /><br />erica<br />www.imbeingerica.combeing ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01447158394306745621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-18540774281069007282012-12-18T23:31:39.710-06:002012-12-18T23:31:39.710-06:00I think I've had about 3 years of unemployment...I think I've had about 3 years of unemployment all together. It's rough. As someone who has done HR though I would suggest you try and find volunteer work until you find something paying. Having volunteer experience gives you something to put on your resume and fill in gaps in employment.<br /><br />I recently went back to retail after being laid off and going back to school. Sometimes we do what we have to do.<br /><br />Sarah<br />bringmoreyarn.blogspot.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05157385912523970413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-75640832523652524332012-12-18T21:48:04.161-06:002012-12-18T21:48:04.161-06:00Thanks for keeping it real! So many times, we tend...Thanks for keeping it real! So many times, we tend to see someone's blog - and we see all the wonderful stuff about them. And we think "why the heck can't I be that flippin awesome?????" ;)It's nice to see the real behind the blogger.<br />And from one Etsian to another, I've gotta say, I LOVE your style. Your designs are super cute. Have you ever thought of selling the patterns to your designs? When I started selling the patterns for my designs, things really picked up. It's a whole different market. (Just an idea ;P )<br />Keep your chin up. You are a beautiful person - and I LOVE stalking your blog. Best of luck with the job search. Fingers crossed for ya!Shanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11114223183259204143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-28592432940747571052012-12-18T21:35:03.136-06:002012-12-18T21:35:03.136-06:00I'm in the same boat, miss! Things will happen...I'm in the same boat, miss! Things will happen for us, don't worry :) <br /><br /><3 Megan<br />http://kiddotv.blogspot.comMegan Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13636404524097090896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-27922215364998361442012-12-18T21:28:11.217-06:002012-12-18T21:28:11.217-06:00Thanks so much for your honesty! Last year, aged 2...Thanks so much for your honesty! Last year, aged 28, I moved to the US from the UK to be with my now husband and I ended up having to wait seven months for all the paperwork to go through until I was able to get my SSN and start applying for positions. At first I was really picky with my applications, I got a few calls back, but nothing worked out. In the end, even though I swore I wouldn't do it (particularly as I had a job I loved back home) I went back to retail. I'm fortunate to have a few freelance projects here and there and I do get to work with books, but I'm still trying to get myself back to where I was. It's a slow road and those months of feeling helpless and getting rejection after rejection were really tough. My advice would be to volunteer as much as you can while you still have the free time. I used to help out at a local animal shelter and a kids writing centre and even if I felt like crap when I left the house, I always returned feeling like I had done something worthwhile that day. Good luck! And don't forget to be nice to yourself!Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00702962938432790324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-4466831855036353802012-12-18T19:22:50.043-06:002012-12-18T19:22:50.043-06:00I can relate to this post SO much right now. I qui...I can relate to this post SO much right now. I quit my job in August 2011 to go on my big "I graduated college and I want to do something crazy" road trip. I ended up getting very sick which then turned into a deep depression. I finally started getting better, had that awful thing happen to me, and ended up getting depressed again. I've been feeling a lot better for awhile now but I'm having such a hard time finding a job. I let the thoughts of "I've wasted over a year of my life doing absolutely nothing" bring me down almost daily. I feel like such a failure for turning 26 in 11 days and not having a job. I have to say, I feel a lot better knowing I'm not alone. I hope you find a job soon, and if you ever need to talk, feel free to email me!<br />xoxo, AbbyAbbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10881269240228787614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-1030204747071665932012-12-18T18:51:30.737-06:002012-12-18T18:51:30.737-06:00I'm in the absolute same situation. I had an a...I'm in the absolute same situation. I had an actual brick and mortar pinup/vintage clothes shop, for the whole of 5 months....leaving me with tonnes of debt. I started uni and started applying for part time jobs, even in Aldi, which I guess could be similar to a walmart. My boyfriend pays for everything, all our bills, everything, it's soul destroying not being able to support myself. But knowing that I will be able to soon, and my studies will lead to hopefully a good job, I have hope :). All it takes is just that one chance, remember that :) xxRebekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12665015885779704413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-70805292289251656942012-12-18T16:48:45.915-06:002012-12-18T16:48:45.915-06:00Wow. This post really hit home with me. I graduate...Wow. This post really hit home with me. I graduated with my Master of Arts degree in May and searched for employment for around four months before I was hired for a job. Out of the many jobs I applied for, only two ever called me back. I'm not good at rejection either and not having anyone call me back really wore me down. Not only this but trying to write the perfect cover letter and resume gets really old after a certain amount of time. I also feel like those on the outside saw my inability to find a job as my own fault. It's easy to think finding a job will be easy until you're in that position, right?!? I sure underestimated how hard it would be to find a job. I mean, we've been told all our lives that if we stay in school and graduate college that there will be plenty of job opportunities waiting for us but that just isn't the case right now. Most of the jobs I have seen are offering pretty low wages and taking a low paying job is just not realistic for those that have student loans to pay back. I was finally hired at a company that provides home based services to the less fortunate among us. The pay was pretty great, there were benefits, the managers appeared friendly, and the only downside was that you had to work one day each weekend. I put in a lot of time and effort during the two weeks of training and felt after the first week that I was getting the hang out it. My second week on the job came and without any kind of notice or warning, the HR people sat down and said they had to terminate my employment immediately. I pushed and pushed for an explanation but they were very rude to me and would only say that I wasn't a "good fit" for the job which is a total bs reason. I didn't even earn two full paychecks and they did this to me a few weeks before the holidays. I can't even apply for unemployment! I even had to apply for a deferment of my student loan because I now have no money to make monthly payments with. However, if I would have done a little research about this company I could have saved myself a lot of trouble because it's well known around the community that the company is really shady and unethical. There are even other social service agencies that refuse to work with the company because they are so terrible. Unfortunately, Indiana is a right to work/at-will employment state so there is little that I can do. My advice to you would be to make sure you do some research about the company and ask around before taking a position. Thank goodness I'm an only child and have my parents to support me until I can find suitable employment. I have no idea what I would have done if I didn't have my parents support. At 24 years old I am single, unemployed, broke/living with my parents, and owe student loans but I definitely know that things could be much worse than they are. However, a new year is upon us and I feel that good things are to come. It may take some time but I feel we will both find our place in the work world soon :). Good luck!Meggie Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06569021394413880099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-56142544244894859202012-12-18T16:46:26.697-06:002012-12-18T16:46:26.697-06:00I def. agree with brushing up on your computer cou...I def. agree with brushing up on your computer courses. It may sound silly, but taking those courses and putting them on your resume is a big step in the right direction right now, if you want an office job. I have an office job, and my mom hires for six different office departments, and she always tells me the first thing she looks for is job experience. Also, if you want, get a license. I know you can get an insurance license fairly easily, if your state requires them, and that would open doors to insurance office jobs. It may not be your niche but it's a start! :)Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07494505212408286585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3067855633324134418.post-69840476527098728992012-12-18T15:29:27.620-06:002012-12-18T15:29:27.620-06:00i know it's hard, but i'm glad you shared ...i know it's hard, but i'm glad you shared this post. it took me so many tries to find a job after i graduated. i would apply and apply, and then NOTHING. finally i re-wrote my resume and started getting call backs. i worked a ho-hum jewelry retail job for a few months, knowing it was a dead end. i decided i wanted to work in a bakery but i didn't feel like i was qualified at all. so i took a few cake decorating classes and applied at a local bakery. they didn't hire for MONTHS but as soon as they did, i got a call from them. i eventually got promoted there to another bakery that i ended up hating, but even those months of working retail and then an entry bakery level job led me to the awesome job i have now. <br /><br />i guess i just wanted to say that it sounds like even though you recognize it sucks, it seems you are staying positive, and that is really important. also, even though it seems super shitty, if you end up taking a *whatever* job then it could actually lead to something you never expected. (also, you are more inclined to leave it if you find your dream job while there!) i mean, i know it's a stretch, but i was in your shoes a little over a year ago and if you would have told me then that i'd be at a dream job. . . well, you know, i wouldn't believe ya =] and it all started at a little jewelry boutique when i realized i deserved better than that. . . <br /><br />hang in there lady, things will turn around sooner than you know! Kitty Cat Stevenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05150553286560704095noreply@blogger.com